Newbreath's Blog

Iveta, the God-sent angel gave me a book with the cure I need:

The Four Agreements

BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of the truth and love.

DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstanding, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
Your best is going to change from moments to moments; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstances, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse, and regret.

The second agreement is what hit me the most. People do have their own projection of opinions and expectation on you, especially your most intimate families and friends.

You strive the long way for so called "personal-freedom", but you don't always get free will. And you easily collapse when people defeat you with their opinions.

Any solutions? I haven't read thru the chapters yet.

For now, I'll just blend my special made essential oils called "immune to opinions" as a daily protection prescription. XDDDD